Reasons for Decision

Overview

In this re-trial, the court must determine what is in the best interests of a five-and-a-half-year-old child when it comes to relocation, decision-making, and parenting time.

As stated by the Court of Appeal for Ontario, “[t]his is a very important case for the child and for both parties”: see Shipton v. Shipton, 2024 ONCA 624, at para. 85. The impact of this case will significantly affect each party.

However, the case is critical to the child’s future. The primary focus must be the child and the requirement to give primary consideration to the child’s physical, emotional, and psychological safety, security, and well-being.

For the reasons that follow, this court permits the relocation to Ireland and orders that the Applicant have sole decision-making authority.

Background and Litigation History

The Applicant mother, Kathleen Marie Shipton (the “Applicant”), was born and raised in Ireland. She is 37 years old.

The Respondent father, Aamir Saleem Shipton (the “Respondent”), was born and raised in England. He is 37 years old.

The parties met in England and married on August 1, 2014, in Malta. They moved to Canada in February 2016 when they were 28 years old.

Shortly after their arrival to Canada, the Respondent was injured in a motor vehicle accident. He suffered numerous physical injuries and developed situational anxiety and depression because of the pain and associated medication.

The parties have a five-year-old child who started senior kindergarten in September 2024.

The parties separated on August 28, 2020, when the Applicant left the family home.

The Applicant commenced an application before this court in September 2020 seeking, inter alia, relocation to Ireland.

Since separation, the Respondent has had a gradual expansion of his parenting time as follows:

• At an urgent motion in September 2020, the Respondent was granted up to two hours of supervised parenting time per day.
• In May 2021, on consent, the Respondent’s unsupervised parenting time increased to up to three days per week for eight hours per visit.
• On consent, in December 2022, the Respondent commenced overnight parenting time with the child in his care on Tuesday from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., Wednesday from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., Friday from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m., and alternate weekends, either Saturday at 10:00 a.m. until Sunday at 10:00 a.m. or Sunday at 10:00 a.m. until Monday at 10:00 a.m.

The Applicant is trained as an optometrist and can practice in Ireland and the United Kingdom. She is not qualified to practice in Canada.

Following the February 2016 motor vehicle accident, the Respondent became unable to work and went on disability in April 2017. He resumed work in April 2022. The Respondent is currently employed as a senior software developer.

The Respondent remarried in the summer of 2023 and has another child, born in January 2025.

The parties appeared before this court for a five-day trial in 2023. At that time, the Applicant had the child in her care 77.4 percent of the time and the Respondent had the child in his care 22.7 percent of the time.

The first trial decision was released on March 29, 2023. The issues before the first trial judge included the Applicant’s request to relocate the then three-year-old child from Toronto to Ireland.

The first trial judge dismissed the Applicant’s request for relocation and ordered joint decision-making responsibility and a shared parenting schedule.

The first trial decision was appealed and overturned by the Court of Appeal for Ontario and a new trial was ordered on an expedited basis. The case before the court is the so-ordered new trial.

From May 2023 to date, the parties have had a shared parenting regime on a 2-2-3 schedule based on the first trial order that was overturned.

Issues to Be Determined

1. Which party has the burden of proof in this relocation case?
2. Is it in the child’s best interests for the court to authorize or prohibit the Applicant’s request to relocate to Ireland?
3. What decision-making regime is in the child’s best interests?
4. What parenting-time regime is in the child’s best interests?

Legislative Framework and General Legal Principles

The Divorce Act, RSC 1985, c 3 (2nd Supp.) applies to this case. The court may authorize or prohibit the relocation of a child: Divorce Act, at s. 16.1(7).

The burden of proof relating to relocation is set out in ss. 16.93(1) to 16.93(3) of the Divorce Act. These sections are outlined below.

In addition to the best interest factors set out in ss. 16(3)(a) to (k) of the Divorce Act, when deciding whether to authorize the relocation of a child of marriage, the court must take into consideration the additional factors set out in ss. 16.92(1)(a) to (g).

The Court of Appeal for Ontario has recently endorsed taking a “blended approach” to determine what parenting arrangement is in the best interests of a child. The court is not to consider a relocation request in isolation or separated from other parenting issues: see Kholi v. Thom, 2025 ONCA 200, at para. 82, citing Chapman v. Somerville, 2022 SKCA 88, para 41.

This court is permitted to allocate parenting time in accordance with s. 16.2 and decision-making responsibility in accordance with s. 16.3 of the Divorce Act.

In allocating parenting time, the court is required to give effect to the principle that a child should have as much parenting time with each party as is consistent with the best interests of the child: see s. 16(6) of the Divorce Act.

In determining what is in the best interests of the child, the court shall not take into consideration the past conduct of any person unless the conduct is relevant to the exercise of their parenting time or decision-making responsibility: see s. 16(5) of the Divorce Act.

Evidence and Analysis

Burden of Proof

This case is unique due to various factors which may impact the application of the presumption set out in s. 16.93 of the Divorce Act.

The relevant provisions are reproduced below.

Burden of proof — person who intends to relocate child

16.93 (1) If the parties to the proceeding substantially comply with an order, arbitral award, or agreement that provides that a child of the marriage spend substantially equal time in the care of each party, the party who intends to relocate the child has the burden of proving that the relocation would be in the best interests of the child.

Burden of proof — person who objects to relocation

(2) If the parties to the proceeding substantially comply with an order, arbitral award or agreement that provides that a child of the marriage spends the vast majority of their time in the care of the party who intends to relocate the child, the party opposing the relocation has the burden of proving that the relocation would not be in the best interests of the child.

Burden of proof — other cases

(3) In any other case, the parties to the proceeding have the burden of proving whether the relocation is in the best interests of the child.

The first trial judge found that s. 16.93(3) applied, placing the burden on the parties to prove whether the relocation is in the best interests of the child.

The Court of Appeal found that the first trial judge should have applied s. 16.93(2) of the Divorce Act, giving the Applicant the benefit of a presumption with respect to relocation. Accordingly, the burden of proof ought to have rested with the Respondent, as the party opposing the relocation, to prove that the relocation would not be in the best interests of the child.

The first trial decision provided for equal parenting time. Despite the Court of Appeal’s decision (released in August 2024) that the first trial decision cannot stand, the parties agreed that the shared parenting regime that was ordered should continue to not drastically disrupt the child’s schedule.

The Applicant submits that the current shared parenting regime only occurred because of the now set-aside decision, and any legal presumptions or factors should reflect the reality at the time of the first trial when the child was in her care the vast majority of the time. She submits that the de facto status quo can be considered, but the legal effects should not be used as a sword.

This court cannot overlook the de facto parenting time status quo when considering the burden of proof. Likewise, this court cannot disregard the factual circumstances that led to the current parenting regime and the parties’ parenting arrangement at the time of the first trial.

However, the parties have substantially complied with an agreement which provides that the child spend substantially equal time in the care of each of them. Accordingly, at the time of this re-trial, the burden of proof must rest with the Applicant to prove that the relocation is in the best interests of the child.

The ultimate test to be applied in relocation cases is whether relocation is in the best interests of the child, having regard to the child’s physical, emotional, and psychological safety, security, and well-being. The inquiry is highly fact-specific and discretionary: Barendregt v. Grebliunas, 2022 SCC 22, at para. 152.

The court must consider the best interests of the child in the particular circumstances of the case: Barendregt, at para. 123.

If I am misguided in my interpretation of the burden of proof, and if the Applicant’s counsel’s argument was correct, as established in the evidence below, the Respondent failed to meet his burden of proving that the relocation would not be in the best interests of the child in the particular circumstances of this case.

Regardless of whether ss. 16.93(1), (2), or (3) applies, the evidence establishes that relocation is in the child’s best interests.

[Further Factual Findings, Analysis, and Orders]

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Orders

Pursuant to the Divorce Act (Canada), this court orders that:

Relocation

1. The Applicant, Kathleen Marie Shipton, shall be permitted to relocate with the child, Sadhbh Amara Shipton, born October 22, 2019, to Ireland in August 2025.

Decision-Making Responsibility

2. The Applicant shall have sole decision-making responsibility for the child. The Applicant shall consult with the Respondent, Aamir Saleem Shipton, and advise with respect to any major decisions or developments pertaining to the child.

Parenting Time

3. The Respondent shall have in-person parenting time with the child in accordance with the following schedule:

   a) If the Respondent chooses, he shall be entitled to have the child for the entirety of the school breaks in October and February. The majority of the visits are to take place in either England, Ireland, or Madeira, Portugal, where the paternal grandparents primarily reside. The Respondent shall advise the Applicant no later than 30 days before the commencement of these breaks as to whether he chooses to have this parenting time.

   b) During odd-numbered years, the Respondent shall have two weeks with the child over the Christmas break. During odd-numbered years the Applicant shall have two weeks with the child from Easter Friday to Easter Sunday. The Respondent shall have the child for the remainder of the break if he so chooses. The Respondent’s parenting time for both of these periods shall be in Canada or a place of his choosing.

   c) During even-numbered years, the child will be with the Applicant for Christmas break, and the Respondent shall have two full weeks at Easter. The latter time shall be in Canada or a place of the Respondent’s choosing (such as England or Madeira, Portugal).

Summer Break

4. The Respondent shall have parenting time with the child in Canada, from the first day after her school ends each summer until two weeks before the recommencement of school (approximately six to eight weeks).

5. In the event the Applicant is in Canada for any period of these visits, she shall have a 24-hour period of time with the child during the week, from Wednesday at 4:00 p.m. to Thursday at 4:00 p.m.

Additional Time

6. The Respondent may have parenting time with the child in Ireland any time during the school year, for up to two weeks, on one month’s notice. The Applicant shall assist the Respondent in finding suitable accommodations in Ireland.

7. If the Respondent comes to Ireland for these additional visits, he shall pay the costs of this airfare.

8. The Respondent may have parenting time with the child in England during the school year, as arranged between the parties. The child may miss some school to ensure the Respondent may have additional visits in England.

Transportation

9. The parent who is next picking up the child shall be the parent who does the travelling for the pick-up of the child. For example, the Respondent shall go to Ireland to pick up the child for the start of his parenting time, and the Applicant shall go to Canada to pick up the child at the end of the parenting time. If the child is staying somewhere other than Ireland or Canada at the start or end of parenting time, the parent picking up the child shall go to that location.

Costs of Flights

10. The Applicant shall be 100 percent responsible for the round-trip flight costs for her and the child for the first visit of each calendar year. For clarity, this shall be for parenting time that commences after the start of the calendar year.

11. After the first visit, the parent who is flying with the child on any given flight shall be responsible for the cost of their ticket.

12. The child shall not travel unaccompanied (or as an unaccompanied minor) on any trip that requires changing flights.

13. The parties may agree, at some point in the future, that the child may travel as an unaccompanied minor on such trips. If the parties do not agree, either party may return this matter to court.

Zoom/Video Calls

14. The Respondent and the child shall have a minimum of one video/Zoom call per day.

Visits with the Respondent’s Extended Family

15. The Applicant shall facilitate visits between the child and her paternal aunt/uncle and cousins who reside in England.

Indian/Religious Activities

16. The child shall participate in appropriate Indian or Islamic activities, several of which are available in Galway, Ennis, or Limerick.

17. The Respondent shall be entitled to request specific programs in which the child will be enrolled with consideration given to her other activities.

18. The Applicant shall ensure that the child is exposed to her Indian culture, consistent with the Respondent’s own upbringing and background.

Costs

19. Written submissions on costs shall be delivered in accordance with r. 24(19) of the Family Law Rules.

Released: June 12, 2025

Justice Kiran Sah